Toby Macklin MA, Registered Clinical Counsellor

online therapy for men

I work with men in their 20s, 30s and 40s with ADHD, anxiety, and relationship issues, and often a history of childhood trauma.

Vancouver, Victoria, Nanaimo and across British Columbia and Alberta

counselling for men

Here’s what you may be facing:

  • ADHD-related challenges

  • Anxiety and worry

  • Irritability, anger and reactivity

  • Problems with weed, porn, alcohol, video gaming

  • Relationship trouble

  • Harsh inner criticism and shame

  • Childhood trauma

therapy That Goes Deeper

Your issues may have roots in the past:

  • Growing up with ADHD, maybe undiagnosed or untreated

  • Childhood trauma – physical, emotional, or sexual abuse

  • Dysfunctional family backgrounds

  • Bullying or being shamed as a child

  • Growing up in a strict religious or high-control environment

Healing & Practical Change

Therapy offers healing and growth:

  • Get to the root of what’s holding you back

  • Learn to thrive with ADHD

  • Heal from trauma

  • Reduce anxiety and worry

  • Build tools for awareness, flexibility and communication

  • Improve your relationships


Toby Macklin is a male counsellor providing counselling for men in Vancouver and across BCBC

About Me

I’ve been in private practice as a Registered Clinical Counsellor since 2020 and have worked in the field for nearly 20 years. I initially trained and led programs at The Haven on Gabriola Island, BC, working with groups in the humanistic, existential, and gestalt tradition of psychotherapy. I have a Masters in Counselling Psychology and am trained in Internal Family Systems Therapy through Dick Schwartz’s IFS Institute. I’m also a Certified ADHD-Clinical Services Provider. Read more about me …


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